Do you worry about what people think of you?

You would not be the only one. We all do this at various times in our lives. But why does it matter what people think? Why are we so concerned that it affects the way we feel about ourselves and act?

Identifying who you want to become

What you think of yourself is a million times more important than what other people think of you. So, stop worrying about what other people think and start thinking about who you want to become. I would suggest you create a list of words that describe you, and don’t be shy, write the person you think you are and becoming, for example, in my list I would write:

• Smart – Caring – Understanding – Motivated – A desire to reach out to others

These are few words that I feel describe me or who I want to be. When you have written your list of who you want to be, then ask yourself ‘how would I act or behave if I was this person?’ Then start behaving like this person and overtime you will become this person!

Choosing your path

No one should ever have to shrink to enable someone else to succeed. Just choose the path you want to take by tapping into your own natural abilities. There may be times when someone takes centre stage. For example, on Graduation Day or when someone is celebrating their birthday, but never shrink for others so that they don’t feel uncomfortable around you. As long as you know who you are, what people think shouldn’t concern you.

“You are the only person in the world whose opinion should truly matter to you. If you love and respect yourself, then no one’s negative opinion or judgement will affect you”

Peter Graham

Once you realise your gifts, talents and potential you are on the road to success! My passion is to work with people to support and help them create a life that increases their self worth, opening up doors to self fulfilment. If this is you, contact me on the details below. In the meantime rejoice in your uniqueness!!

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