Over the last 3 or 4 of months I have been creating a 2 hour workshop which has taken up most of my time. It is something I have wanted to achieve for a long time. Having worked with women in various groups, I recognise how we are all different in our personalities, skills and talents. However, one of the characteristics that some of us share is the lack of confidence in our abilities to move forward and make things happen in our life.
Too often we think that we are not capable, or our ideas won’t work, or others will laugh at us or its too late (those who are thinking about their age, including myself). However, I finally arrived at the conclusion that is never too late to reach for what you want in life, regardless of your age. Once your heart is completely involved and smitten by your ideas, goals or ambitions you just have to keep looking forward in the direction you want to go. Ignoring all the messages via magazines, news reports, messages from friends or family and just keep following your hearts desires.
“Create the highest, grandest vision possible for your life, because you become what you believe”
Oprah Winfrey
I know through personal experience that once you give up on something that you feel so passionate about, because you felt that you were not good enough or smart enough. Or that other people would laugh or make fun of you. You will have lost a very precious part of yourself. And, what right do other people have to discredit your abilities just because they think they know better than you, or even what is good for you.
No one really knows you better than yourself. They will not have experienced being you. No family or friend or foe can truly understand what is in your heart and moves you to act. So whatever your passion, dream or goal, go right ahead and achieve it! Maybe you’ll surprise yourself and others what you can actually do. But whatever else find the POWER within you to never be afraid or feel inferior to anyone else when you have a desire, and become 100% unapologetically YOU!
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What is real confidence and how do you get it? 